With Ellie being a halvsies kid, Aya and I want her to be bilingual and bicultural. Â But with Aya gone during the weekdays, I was beginning to worry that maybe she wasn’t getting equal time with the Japanese language.Â At the same time I was also looking for something new to do with Ellie.Â The repetitive winter routine had gotten, well… repetitive.Â I had looked into a baby swim class, but I felt it was too expensive for what it was.Â Plus, I don’t like wearing shorts let alone a swimsuit.Â So I started researching for a Japanese story time in the area, and I found one!I was a little nervous, but mainly excited for this.Â It was something new to do and it would get us out of the house and not walking at a mall.Â If it was what I expected, a bunch of Japanese parents with Japanese kids reading Japanese stories, I wouldn’t need to participate!Â I could creepily lurk in the corner while we watched the stories being read.Â I’d still give a polite smile and when they’d look at me puzzled, I’d point at Ellie and say, it’s ok, she’s halvsies. Â
As the day of class approached, I noticed that the age listed on the website said preschool age kids.Â To me that meant, any kid who is not in school yet.Â PRE-school.Â But then after talking to a few people, I found out it probably meant for three and four year olds.Â Ellie is just over one and maybe we wouldn’t be allowed in.Â Even though the class was at a library a good 45 minutes away, I decided to go anyways.Â They wouldn’t turn us away, right?
We needed to be there by 10:30am.Â It’sd be a busy morning, but if Ellie cooperated, we could still do it.Â I picked out an outfit that was stylish and cute, but not her Japanese clothes.Â I didn’t want her to look like she was trying too hard.Â I had her bag packed, extra diapers, snacks, treats, and milk and we were in the car and on the road by 9:30am giving us plenty of time to get there.Â At least I thought.Â
The farthest I usually travel these days is out to Meijer and back for groceries.Â Which isn’t far at all.Â I was completely thrown off at how congested the roads were.Â I certainly don’t miss the commute to work.Â It was pretty clear we were going to be late because I didn’t get to my exit until 10:25am.Â And it took me six lights just to be able to turn left.Â I still had a few more turns and a few more miles.Â By the time I approached the next light, it was 10:55am.Â I couldn’t even be late!Â We’d miss the whole thing!Â I wouldn’t even get the opportunity to be rejected and turned away.Â Or to say, “Konnichiwa!”Â I had driven for an hour already and I wasn’t gonna go home.Â
Story time ended up being a major FAIL, or “SHIKKAKU” as they call it in Japanese. Â But luckily, it was close to lunchtime and Aya works close by.Â We decided to meet her and a friend for lunch at the Japanese restaurant, Cherry Blossom.Â It wouldn’t be in story form, but at least we got a dose of Japanese in some way today.Â
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i didn’t want her to look like she was trying too hard.
funny, my friend!