MUSIC TO MY EARS

One thing I love to do is just sit around a listen to music. New music, old music, rock music, or classical, it just depends on my mood. I’d call them listening nights. Usually I’d pick a night when Aya was out late, and I’d park it on the couch with a stack of CDs and listen. Pretty loud too. But with Ellie around, I don’t really get to do it as much as I used to. I have music on a lot, but it’s different. I love taking drives by myself now just so I can crank the music. Even if it’s a short trip to the gas station, I bring my iPod and put on a song and jam. I might not even get to finish the song but I don’t care, it’s still that short moment when I can remember who I am. Anyway, I’m really lucky to have Joe, a next door neighbor who loves listening nights just as much as I do. And on a recent visit to his house, the subject was the Beatles, and the volume had no limits.

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BALANCE

One thing I’ve always struggled with is living a balanced life. And as I try to be balanced, I find that it’s not only difficult to do, but also understand. What exactly does it mean to be balanced?

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THE GREETER

Other than going to Macy Monday’s, I like to frequent the Henry Ford Museum.  Ellie and I were going to meet up with my friend Meggan and her son River.  Meggan and I were both majored in Interior Design in college, both worked our first internship at the same place, stayed in contact as we entered the professional world, and now, we are both stay at home moms.  I mean parents.  Stay at home parents.  We were originally going to meet at the zoo, but due to the intense heat outside, we ended up at the museum for more of an educational mallwalking type journey.

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TELL ME HOW YOU FEEL

We all just want to be heard, right?  We want to be understood and have our feelings validated.  It’s funny how talking about our emotions can seem so simple, yet it can be one of the hardest things to do.  Not only to say it, but have it understood.  We can hold back on what we are feeling for the fear of the other person not understanding.  Not getting it.  We don’t want our delivery misinterpreted.  “That’s not what I said!?”  It’s so easy to be misunderstood.  To have the delivery be all wrong.  How many times have you heard this phrase, “It’s not so much what you said, it’s how you said it.”  Most of us have either said that, or had that said to us at some point.  Well, I find that Ellie has been having plenty of trouble expressing her emotions lately.  And I’ve been having just as much trouble trying to understand them.

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SUMMER IS ‘ROLLING’ RIGHT ALONG

It’s funny how all winter I was praying for summer to come so I could be outside. And summer did come and it was awesome. And then it got hot. Really hot. All this intense heat we’ve had lately kind of forced Ellie and me indoors again. We were getting antsy,again. I wasn’t expecting this feeling until maybe January. I know I wasn’t the only one, either.

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